Tuesday, January 11

Fighting Friends

*Ever got in a fight with a friend and don't know what to do?! Well I'm here to help! 1. You have to realize what great friends yall are and all the good times, and would you want to loose them? 2. Then you got to be the mature person and go to them and even say sorry first, and ask if yall can talk about it. ( It doesn't matter whos right or wrong just focus on the friendship) 3. Don't try to put eachother down, try to make eachother feel better!! 4. Then hang out or do something fun!!
*Fighting with your friends is only natural, it's apart of life. Once and awhile your gana get mad, annoyed, or just sick of eachother. And when it does don't freak out!! Trust me, the fight won't last forever and yall will be friends again.
*Holding grudges is bad to, "Forgive and Forget" is always the best thing.
*Even if you don't wana be friends again, it's not good to be eneimies and hate eachother. You should solve the problem and be cool, but just not friends. Just because your not friends doesn't mean you have to not like eachother!
Once me and my bestfiends all got in fight and split, and my best friend, "sister", stayed together and began disliking the other two. We couldn't stand eachother at all!! We didn't talk to the others for months. But we both admitted we didn't like the feeling of hating someone for some dumb reason, and would rather be "cool" with them, but not be close friends to save the drama. What do you know? They felt the same, and now we're all friends! And let me tell ya, its 100 times a better feeling then before. *But are you afraid of drama?
Well, we made promises to never talk behind backs, always be truthful, and try not to hurt or leave anyone out! And me and my "sister" made promises too, and maybe we won't be as close with the others as we used to be, but it's wayyy better than hating eachother. and God has helped keep us together by doing the right thing!(: Hope this helps!

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